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Want to write the perfect wedding vows? Here are some amazing tips for writing your wedding vows or letter to your love on your wedding day.

 

Okay, so you are sitting down and getting ready to write your wedding vows… now… where to start? Writing your wedding vows or even just the letter to your love on your wedding day for them to read before you walk down the aisle can be overwhelming. I wanted to come up with some tips that weren’t classic tips you can find anywhere on the internet. I talked to several married couples to get their thoughts on this topic. I wanted to give real world advice so you can enjoy your wedding ceremony and feel like you said what you really feel in your vows!

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1. Determine your definition of love and marriage
This is the first step, the foundation for your vows, and the foundation for your relationship. How do you want your relationship to look? What do you value most in your relationship? How would you describe love? These are some great questions to ask yourself to help you get started. I would also suggest figuring out your “love language”, you can take the quiz here: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/couples/. This has made a big difference in my relationship and if you know this when writing your vows you can make promises based off of that.

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“I officiate weddings. I’ve had couples vow to stay together through Eagles wins & losses & another vowed to watch Judge Judy & Judy Garland movies for the rest of their lives. Whatever you write, make it about the two of you”- Valerie, Wedding Officiant

bride and groom reading letters to each other bride and groom together before ceremony

2. Decide, with your fiancé, on the theme you want
This can be helpful if you want to be on the same page with your vows. You don’t want one of your vows to be really long and the other super short. Imagine if your husband cracks a bunch of jokes but you keep it very sentimental. You don’t want your vows to feel like a competition so having a simple discussion of the general theme can help. You don’t have to pin point an exact word count or anything, but just a general feel for how you want it to flow.

bride and groom reading letters to each other before their ceremony

“I officiate weddings. I’ve had couples vow to stay together through Eagles wins & losses & another vowed to watch Judge Judy & Judy Garland movies for the rest of their lives. Whatever you write, make it about the two of you”- Valerie, Wedding Officiant

couple at the alter saying their vows

“That they were serious but little hints of us which are funny and that no one else could hear them”- Cassie, Cassie kept her vows quiet during their ceremony so that it was more just between her and her wife!

3. Think about the story of your relationship
Think back to the beginning of your relationship, how did you meet, what was your first date like, how did the proposal go? I am sure a lot of people have asked you about your story along the way through your relationship, so you should have this story nailed down! Then, think about the future of your relationship. Where do you see your future with your loved one? What do you promise to do in the future to make that happen? Really think hard and go with your first thoughts and follow your heart!

emotional bride reading the letter from the groom on her wedding day

“I think it’s always nice to have a past, present, future. One of your favorite memories from the past in your relationship, your feelings/thoughts on your wedding day in the moment, and one hope for the future as a couple”- Amanda Perras

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4. Keep it simple and speak from the heart
Keep it simple! If you get a spark of inspiration, write it down! Sometimes I will watch a tv show and get emotional at a romantic moment, I try to write down a quote from that or even just why it touched me so much. Think back to those moments in tv shows, and moment in your relationship and pull little snippets from them. Along with keeping it simple, don’t make your vows too long. Save the details for your letter to your love and then have your vows be the promises and summary of your relationship. Don’t be afraid to get emotional on the wedding day! If your heart tells you to say something in your wedding vows, go for it! I have read in different articles to rehearse with your fiancé before the wedding day if you think you will be too emotional, but I don’t agree with that! I say save it for the wedding day, let the tears fall, laughter ensue, and embrace that moment!

“Just speak from the heart. Don’t overthink them and rehearse to make sure they’re not too long or short when you say them out loud. Tell him why you love him, what you promise for your future, and I threw a few jokes in there”- Noel

“I also officiate weddings. I often have couples where 1 will REALLY want to write the vows, and another will be like “What??? I can’t do this!” What I often tell them is to just say what they love most about their partner, and what they want for them in the future. Always works!”- Becky, wedding officiant

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“I love that both of us unintentionally wrote ours the morning of the wedding! Don’t overthink it and don’t over rehearse.”- Jennifer
“My vows were way too long. So I say keep it short and sweet with a few points!”- Amanda

5. Find some fancy stationary for your vows or letter
Your vows or letter to your love will be in a lot of photos, so you want them to look their best! You can put it in a card, write it on fancy paper, or print it on pretty printer paper. When you are getting ready you letter or vows will be a great detail to be photographed. I always love to incorporate the letter or vows along with jewelry, cuff links, or even other stationary from the wedding day.

I hope these tips help you to navigate your way through writing your vows! It was great to hear from lots of couples and get their advice on writing vows. Everyone does something different, so as long as it feels right to you thats all that matters! The most important thing is that you are committing to your lifelong marriage with the love of your life, what ever you decide to promise is up to you. If you feel like you forget something, don’t worry, you can add on promises every day of your marriage!

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Want the perfect event? Leo Design Gallery has you covered!

I will admit it, when I first met Heather from Leo Design Gallery I thought she would be like all the other planners I have worked with. We were mainly worried that she would get in my way and not let us capture the day we set out for. I was wrong in every way. She coordinated with us well in advance to make sure our timeline was kept the way we planned it, and in fact, really helped us execute our vision.

We really enjoy working with professionals that do just that, make our job easier and more fun to do! So, when the Leo team wanted to sit down and talk about other projects we could do together we jumped on it. We have now collaborated on two major styled shoots, resulting in gorgeous magazine spreads, as well as few weddings we just love!

As I got to know Heather and Greg (the owners) more, I realized they are so much more than just wedding planners/designers. These two have such a great energy and style, and they bring that to every project they do. Along side a dedicated staff, they can transform any space or event into something you will never forget! We talked with the duo in a very candid interview and shared a ton of laughs. Here are some of the biggest take aways from that interview. Enjoy!

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In your words, how would you describe what Leo Design Gallery is?

“LEO Design Gallery is an event planning company and design production firm based in Philadelphia.  Award winner of the PHL 17 Philly Hot List and also featured on America’s Best, LEO has gained national attention for extraordinary events that surpass imagination.  Under the direction of founder Heather Pasko, and lead designer Gregory Paul, LEO has become one of the  most trusted names in the industry.  In addition to event planning and design, LEO also produces LEO Weddings Magazine and provides online resources to help anyone plan the perfect event.”

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What are all the kind of products or services you provide?

“LEO events are unique and reflect the personality of each client.  Through event planning and stylish rentals, we are able to not only help the client have a stress free event but also bring their dreams to life visually.  Plus, the whole   process becomes easier as everything they need (from linens to furniture) is under one roof.   Additionally, we feature a personal network of the finest wedding professionals, venue spaces, and creative minds working together to create events unparalleled by any other event organization.  LEO also features Showrooms and a wedding magazine, as well as a trusted online source that showcases the best-of-the-best vendors in the area around each city where a LEO Showroom is located.  They also feature a wonderland of design ideas, fabrics, rentals, lighting, and more!”

In an ever growing industry what would you say separates you from others?

“Experience in the industry is key.  Anyone can say they are an event planner or designer, but what is their experience?   How many events have they worked on?  How long have they been in business?  Again, anyone can purchase a nice website with stock photos.  We at LEO have been in business for close to 20 years and have produced over a thousand plus events.  In addition, we have a full in house design company.  That means we cut out the middle man and are able to rent products at a better rate saving our clients hundreds of dollars.” 

What is your process when taking on a major project like a wedding?

“Really it’s all about getting to know the client.  We are not about cookie cutter events.  We want the event to be exactly what the client imagines, only better.  So we take a lot of time getting to know the clients likes and dislikes.  Then we build from there.   We give suggestions, that will save time and money, we guide, and we become a trusted friend that they can talk to.  Leo becomes their rock and then help them rock their wedding day!”

What are the design trends you are seeing for 2017/2018?

“We’re back to big!  Posh, large centerpieces with lots of greens.  Lighting is everything and events are being transformed with Edison bulbs, glamourous chandeliers and effect lighting.  In addition, there are more personalized spaces being created with soft seating furniture near the bar or outside the tent under the stars.” 

Leo Design Gallery Reading Philadelphia PA wedding planner

What would your autobiography be called?

After The Event / One woman’s journey working in the business of perfection”

You’re a new addition to the crayon box.

“What color would you be and why?  Black Shimmer.  It’s always stylish, sleek and a bit sparkly.  What’s not to love?”

Leo Design Gallery Reading Philadelphia PA wedding planner

The Leo group does it all with style and personality! They offer your vision brought to life, at a budget that anyone can fit into! Next time you are thinking of throwing an event that is meant to wow and surprise your guests, contact Heather and Greg. You won’t be disappointed! You can see and learn more about Leo at their website: leodesigngallery.com

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Center City Philadelphia Wedding at the Ballroom at the Ben | Heather + Bobby

Here is Heather and Bobby’s gorgeous Center City Philadelphia Wedding from last May. We had such an incredible time working with this couple on both photography and cinema. When I first sat down with Heather and Bobby, I knew this was going to be a fun wedding for us. They had so much positive energy, both were so involved with every process, and they knew exactly what they wanted. A timeless wedding day. It was a day full of love + laughter from start to finish.

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Heather + Bobby started their day getting ready at the beautiful Loews Hotel in Philadelphia, said I Do at Old Saint Joseph’s Church, and celebrated in style at the Ballroom at the Ben.

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